Why Do We Hold Ourselves Back?

Have you ever found yourself hesitating, even when you knew deep down that you were capable of more? Maybe you have had moments where you wanted to speak up, take a risk, or chase a dream, but something inside told you to wait.

You convinced yourself that you were not ready yet. That you needed more experience, more confidence, more approval from others.

But what if that was never true?

The Lie of Playing It Safe

Many people believe that staying in their comfort zone is the safest option. They think avoiding risk will protect them from failure. But the truth is, the biggest risk is never taking a chance at all.

When you play small, you:

• Miss out on opportunities that could change your life
• Let fear dictate your choices instead of your potential
• Watch others take bold steps while you stay stuck in hesitation

Think about the people you admire. Do you think they waited until they felt completely ready? No. They stepped into uncertainty, embraced challenges, and grew into their greatness.

How to Break Free from Playing Small

If you are ready to stop holding yourself back, here are three powerful shifts you can make:

1. Change Your Inner Dialogue

The words you tell yourself shape your reality. Instead of saying, I am not ready yet, start saying, I am learning as I go. Instead of thinking, What if I fail? ask yourself, What if I succeed beyond my wildest dreams?

2. Take One Bold Action Every Day

Growth does not come from waiting—it comes from doing. Speak up in a meeting, share your ideas, start that project, or say yes to an opportunity that scares you. Small, consistent actions build confidence over time.

3. Surround Yourself with People Who Challenge You

You become like the people you spend the most time with. Seek out mentors, peers, and communities that push you to grow. Being around others who think big will inspire you to do the same.

You Are Capable of More Than You Realize

Your potential is limitless, but only if you choose to believe in yourself. No one is going to give you permission. You must take it.

So ask yourself: What is one thing I have been waiting on that I can start today?

If you are ready to step into your next level, let’s connect. Schedule a call with me and let’s take that first step together.